Sabrina & Iza: Two Women, Two Experiences of Being a Trans Escort in London

What is this work actually like for the woman on the other side of the door? We put that question, and seven more, to Sabrina and Iza, two trans escorts in London. Each answered in her own words.

1. How would you describe working in London in one honest sentence? Then expand.

Sabrina

You meet some very interesting men, some very strange ones, and now and then someone you wish you’d met years ago.

London has a bit of everything. I’ve met men who are hugely successful at work but can barely hold an ordinary conversation with a woman. Then someone walks in who’s completely at ease, tells me about his day and makes me laugh. You never know who’s going to turn up, and I suppose that’s what keeps it interesting.

Iza

I love the freedom, though London can make even a simple evening complicated.

I’m Brazilian, and when I first arrived I had to learn how people communicate here. The British can be very reserved. Sometimes a man takes ages to say what he actually wants because he’s trying so hard to be polite. I’ve learnt not to rush anyone. I enjoy my work most when there’s time for dinner or a proper conversation. The one thing I’ll never get used to is the weather.

2. What surprised you most about meeting guests?

Sabrina

How many men apologise for things that need no apology: being nervous, asking a question, not knowing what to say. I’ve even heard a man apologise for being quiet.

I don’t expect anyone to walk in brimming with confidence. Some people are simply shy. What makes me smile is the man who spends ten minutes telling me how nervous he is when he could just sit down and talk to me.

Iza

The different reasons people want company. I used to assume most guests would come for the physical side of a meeting. For many of them it matters, of course, but I’ve also seen how much people value being listened to.

I’ve talked about work, relationships, football, disastrous holidays. One man spent ages explaining a business problem, then laughed when he realised I’d probably heard enough. I was actually interested.

3. What is the most common misconception about you?

Sabrina

That being trans tells you everything you need to know about me.

Some men arrive with a whole picture of how a trans woman should look, behave and what she must enjoy. Where does it all come from? I’m not here to perform somebody’s idea of a trans woman. I’m Sabrina. I have my own tastes, things I like and things I don’t. It isn’t complicated.

Iza

People sometimes assume that because I’m Brazilian I’ll be loud, dancing all night and talking without pause.

I do like to have fun, but I’m not permanently at a carnival. Some evenings I’m very talkative. On others I’d much rather have a quiet dinner and enjoy someone’s company. Being Brazilian is part of who I am, but that doesn’t make every stereotype true.

And being trans doesn’t mean I owe anyone my personal history. If we’re getting to know each other, that’s different. But some questions are very personal to ask someone you’ve only just met.

4. What do you wish clients understood before they arrive?

Sabrina

Please read my profile properly. I put information there for a reason.

Some men ask about things that are already explained, then seem surprised by the answer. If there’s something specific you want, ask before the meeting is arranged. I don’t enjoy awkward negotiations once someone’s at the door.

One more thing: you don’t need to tell me you’ve never met a trans woman before as if you were confessing to something terrible. It’s fine.

Iza

I’d like guests to feel more comfortable saying what they’re looking for. Some want a short visit, some want dinner, and some would like to spend the whole evening together.

I love longer meetings because there’s more time to get to know someone. I also offer shorter appointments, and I understand that not everyone has an entire evening free.

What I don’t enjoy is when someone books a short meeting and then gets frustrated as the time runs out. We both knew how long it would be.

5. What is one meeting you still remember, and why?

Sabrina

A guest who arrived so serious and formal that he asked whether he could sit down, then whether he could take off his jacket. I began to wonder if he’d ask permission to breathe.

Eventually I told him he could stop behaving as though he’d been sent to see the headmistress. He burst out laughing, and that was that. He became a completely different man.

I remember him because he’d worked so hard at being respectful that he’d forgotten how to relax.

Iza

A couple who were both a little unsure at the start. The woman had suggested the meeting, but her partner was far more nervous than she was.

We talked for quite a while. She had plenty of questions and wasn’t embarrassed to ask them. He mostly listened, and then he began to join in.

What stayed with me was how differently the two of them approached the same experience. She was curious and excited. He needed more time, and that’s perfectly normal. I liked that they were both comfortable telling me how they felt.

6. Have you and a guest ever completely misunderstood each other?

Sabrina

Yes, over the word “surprise”.

A guest once told me he wanted me to surprise him. Fine. I asked what sort of things he liked. He said he’d rather not tell me, because that would spoil the surprise.

That doesn’t give me much to work with, does it? We eventually had a proper conversation and sorted it out. I still laugh about it.

Iza

Yes. Sometimes people see that I can travel across London and assume I can be anywhere in fifteen minutes.

London doesn’t work like that, unfortunately. If I’m going to a hotel on the other side of the city, I need time to get there. One guest couldn’t understand why I hadn’t arrived already. When I explained the journey he was very apologetic. No argument, just a misunderstanding.

7. What do you do when you’re not working?

Sabrina

I like clothes, going out and taking pictures. I can spend ages deciding what to wear and then change my mind at the last minute.

But there are days when I don’t want to dress up at all. People see the photos on my profile and probably imagine I spend every day in heels. Absolutely not. Some days I look at my wardrobe and can’t be bothered with any of it.

Iza

I like to be outdoors whenever I can. I grew up near the sea in Brazil and I still miss it. London has the Thames, of course, but it’s hardly the same thing.

I enjoy exploring different parts of the city, sometimes going somewhere simply because I’ve never been. I also love a quiet day with nothing planned. I’m happy in my own company, and I don’t need a busy social life every day.

8. What would you tell a man who has never met a trans woman before?

Sabrina

That he doesn’t need a special set of instructions.

I’m a woman. Talk to me normally. Be polite, ask what you want to know if it’s appropriate, and don’t arrive expecting me to represent every trans woman you’ve ever heard about.

And please don’t tell me about a documentary you watched five years ago. I’ve heard enough of those stories.

If you’re attracted to me and want to meet me, that’s a perfectly good place to start.

Iza

I’d tell him not to make the whole evening about the fact that I’m trans.

Of course he may have questions, especially if it’s his first time. I don’t mind an honest conversation. I’d much rather someone ask respectfully.

But I’m also interested in getting to know him. We might discover we have something in common, or that we like completely different things. That’s part of meeting someone new.

And he doesn’t need to pretend to be experienced. I can usually tell when someone is nervous anyway.

Who you’ve just met

Sabrina has a sharp, dry sense of humour and zero interest in playing a rehearsed role. Beneath her polished wardrobe and heels, she is direct, observant, and knows exactly how to put a shy or overthinking guest at ease within minutes. She is an exceptional match for men seeking an authentic girlfriend experience (GFE), a relaxed first-time trans encounter, or a private incall in Central London where the conversation flows as naturally as the chemistry.

Iza brings warm Brazilian poise and unhurried attention to every meeting. Whether she is joining you for a quiet dinner date in Mayfair, travelling for a late-night hotel outcall in Kensington, or hosting curious couples exploring something new together, she creates a calm, pressure-free atmosphere. While she accommodates shorter visits, she truly shines during extended evenings and overnight stays where there is plenty of time to connect.

If you’d like to get to know them better, their profiles are here: Sabrina and Iza. You’ll find the rest of our London team on the trans escorts page.